Husband cheated, left, trying SO HARD to DB 2

[Ready2Change]

Tuesday, Thursday and Friday nights he can have a few hours with her and then Sundays.

Did you get the exchange times set?

Father
T 5-10
R 5-10
F 5-12
Su 8-5

Mother (nights unitl 1yo)
M 5-10
W5-10
Sat 8-5, 5-10
sun 5-10

Even this appears that you are giving him a free pass.

H wants to avoid responsibility. Take care of baby or have fun with OW?

He will say one thing while wanting the other. H" Kech, is keeping me away from my baby". Thinking "More time for OW"

Here is my thought process:

40 hours of work time during the week. 8 hours of sleep time each day.

This leaves:

M-F 8 hours of baby time.
Sat sun 16 hours baby time.

72 hours a week of baby time. 50/50 parenting ==> Each parent should have 36 hours baby time a week.