Well, worrying about what her and OM think about you is weak. Every person that disagreed with me, did so on the basis of what and how your W treated you. But guess what, you are not your W. I told you to fix it because YOU told her you would.
Just beacuse your W, went against y'all vows, dont mean you can't live up to your word. Don't allow another person to turn you into something you are not. When it's all said and done all we have is our words and actions.
What we do when we DB is not always about how we interact with our S, but how we make decisions about and for ourselves.
We deal with procrastination by starting. It's that simple. Make a move. Get up. Go.
Life is simple, it's all the other people around us that makes it hard.
You make a damn good argument JJ. I had made my mind up to not do it, but yoir making me think a 3rd time. Jusy to be clear, i wouldnt not do it because of the A and the D, but because she basically said i didnt have any right to the home and basically have to walk away empty handed to something that was an investment property although in her name.
Together:20 years M:3 years Me:40 WW:40 S15 A suspected:5/17 AC:5/18 BD:8/18 WW in full blown R w/ OM Still under same roof
