Equalzr's WW. Still accepting advice! Pt 3

[equalzr]

Well at least i know the debate in ky head about doing it was justified lol.

Joejoe, i dont think im being vindictive by not wanting to pay/do it. I just feel like if its not mine and W made it clear the 10's of thousands of dollars i put into home equal no more than rent, well i feel im being used by doing it now.

LH, your right about the wedding vows. According to her, people make mistakes and things change. Also, i know that OM has been in the background playing puppetmaster with her. Hes trying to make her play hardball w/ me, so your right about that. Sad how you go from a happy M to being the outsider.

David, i want to say it was after i started thinking there was an A going on initially. I dont feel the need to do nice things for W at all. I dont want to be a jerk at this point if that makes sense, but im not trying to be mr nice guy either. Only reason im considering it os because i said i was going to do something about it, and im focused on 180's.

Lost, im going to consider your suggestion.

Thanks for the feedback everyone! I appreciate y'all!