I wish I could go no contact but I know I can't with daughter.
There will always be exchanges. It is very important for you to separate parenting from other interactions with H. Do "no contact" before/after exchanges. You are doing that now.
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I just wish I could do SOMETHING to get his attention somehow.... He will only see the best version of me.
Obviously the shorts got his attention.
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