Sorry to confuse you but I disagree with JJ. How did her word turn out when reciting your wedding vows?
Look if it was both of yours house I would agree. Trust me when I tell you her and OM would get a good laugh about it if you spent your money to fix her house.
You want to work on procrastination, join a gym, go for a run, take up a hobby. There are many things you can do to accomplish this that doesn't make you look weak.
