My WAS - looking help and thanks in advance PART 4

[joejoe1]

Ovr,

Moving forward is not about your marital status. Your decision to stand for your M in IMO is disconnected from moving forward. And you used a word that won't work when detacting. "Acting", stop acting and move forward. Don't act single. Move on with your life. You kicking your W out is not divorcing her, it's you not allowing the disrespect around you. You can't control her, and shouldn't try. And if she decide to fight not being kicked out. Move her stuff out the marital BR.

One of the reasons those feelings are subsiding are because you have prepared yourself to not fully trust your WW, her actions aren't a surprise anymore.

Stop acting and start doing/moving forward with no expectations of a reaction or turn around from your WW. When you move forward without any expectations and continue to go forward without looking back, or holding the door open for your W to come in, if or when your W comes back, you will see that she fought to get the door open. In life, in general when people have to put in work and fight for things they cherish it that much more.

Make her work for you! Get out of her way, let her go and you GAL, meet new people and start enjoying all that life has given you.

Oh and detach with love, please, please, please. I know it will be hard, but dont be mean, smile and let go of the anger. The faster you can get to a positive outlook even about your sitch, the better life will be. And not being mean, is not about being nice, it's about not being nasty and vindictive, but being firm and resolute with not allowing people to disrespect you.

Remember our time is limited on this beautiful planet and tomorrow is not promised, so spend your time smiling, laughing and enjoying life and people.

And, the ironic thing about what I just mentioned is, thats when you become the best you. And people are attracted to a smile and positivity even Waywards.