Originally Posted by kech
But then doesn’t it make it easier for him to detach even more?


I believe it does. But i guess the belief is that getting out of the way lets WS a) move on w/affair that may crash and burn b)realize they miss you and MR c)leave MR for good.

I think it also helps to take you off the rollercoaster ride in the meantime.

Together:20 years
M:3 years
Me:40
WW:40
S15
A suspected:5/17
AC:5/18
BD:8/18
WW in full blown R w/ OM
Still under same roof