Anyone who has been through this. When you start to truly separate, contact becomes less and less, and you are truly living separate lives for the first time, HOW did you get through your days? If your WS did come back to R, how long did you live separate, with very little contact (only contact is about child)?
And anyone in this sitch, how long did it take once living really separated, to start to truly let go and not feel this way every. SINGLE. DAY?
I of course want hope for my M, but I am absolutely losing all of it. I think that is why I feel so awful. I know my marriage is dead and gone, and with no hope, I see nothing to look forward to. Nothing. I have had a glimmer of hope all along, it is the ONLY thing that helps me through my days. And feeling none is really making this awful.
GAL is the answer. You aren't staying busy enough. Common mistake. LBSs tend to sit and stew on their sitches. Worst thing that you can do.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
