Originally Posted by kech
I know my marriage is dead and gone, and with no hope, I see nothing to look forward to. Nothing. I have had a glimmer of hope all along, it is the ONLY thing that helps me through my days. And feeling none is really making this awful.


This is something we have to go through, I think. It hurts like nothing you've ever felt before. It. Just. Hurts.

But here's where you can find some hope:

Your M is dead. And it should be. It's not a very good one, seeing as your H isn't 100% committed to it.

But your H is not dead. And you aren't, either.

There can be a new MR if/when you're both ready.


H: 35 W: 33
M: 11 T: 13

4/10/18: I discovered A and confronted ("BD1")
6/23/18: I moved out
8/31/18: MC ends ("BD2")