thanks for asking about my sitch. Currently I'm in a valley but just check out my thread - I don't want to hijack yours.
Sounds like she is still dropping crumbs for you. Let them go my man, you eat steak. Not crumbs.
You can't believe anything she says and only half of what she does. So listen to her, just don't believe anything 100% until you see that consistent action over time with an attitude to match.
I wouldn't call her or anything unless you want her to think that you're feasting on the crumbs she is feeding you.
When you are done being in the middle ground, you will know it and you will take a strong action. When you're ready, you're ready. At that point you can give ultimatums and/or make it clear that you're moving on with or without her. That will force a decision. But only you can decide when and how to do it.
When you let go, like you did in the past, she came out and said she had feelings. Just don't get sucked in to the R talk unless she's all in. She loves temp-checking you, so 180 there.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
