Newbie who is a mess

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I went to 2 MC sessions with my W. Back in April I believe she was just doing that to say she did it. In July we went to one more session, but then she was gone the next week.

I believe it would help, but you need 2 people to commit to getting better for it to work.

I'm still not clear on who said what about the "Dbomb".

Normally, telling your WAS that you love them no matter what is inadvisable b/c it solidifies yo as the backup plan. But in your case, maybe it worked. You have him wanting to go with you so that's good.