Thanks for youre reply. My heart hurts. When I brought up the Dbomb...my H said it was a RELIEF to say it...which hurts.. I told him I was suprised but glad he wanted to go to MC, we spoke about some of our issues, and we didnt fight or get defensive but we both realized that we were misreading some things, and my H said this is why we need to learn to communicate. We sat on the couch together and held hands and I told him no matter what I would always love him and that I felt fortunate to have had him as my H. Not sure if that was wise. He asked me to look for a therapist. I am scared that it is too late, and i said since he didnt tell me he was unhappy and i couldnt fix what i was unaware about that he would at least try in counseling to work on the M.
