I am working on 180's and proctastination(or just not following through at all) is one of them. Deal is the W asked about me fixing something on the house that i said i would do a while back and never actually did it. That said, since she has filed for D, legally i have no claim to the house. I really dont want to repair the house or spend money on the house since im now being treated as a temporary renter.
Should i spend money and do the repair? My feeling was to tell her since its been made clear its no longer my home i wont be putting any money into it. Any thoughts?
Together:20 years M:3 years Me:40 WW:40 S15 A suspected:5/17 AC:5/18 BD:8/18 WW in full blown R w/ OM Still under same roof