Just out of curiosity...

I am working on 180's and proctastination(or just not following through at all) is one of them. Deal is the W asked about me fixing something on the house that i said i would do a while back and never actually did it. That said, since she has filed for D, legally i have no claim to the house. I really dont want to repair the house or spend money on the house since im now being treated as a temporary renter.

Should i spend money and do the repair? My feeling was to tell her since its been made clear its no longer my home i wont be putting any money into it. Any thoughts?


Together:20 years
M:3 years
Me:40
WW:40
S15
A suspected:5/17
AC:5/18
BD:8/18
WW in full blown R w/ OM
Still under same roof