Husband cheated, left, trying SO HARD to DB

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Kech,
About 2 years ago my w said she wanted a D. I found out later there was OM. She denied they were even talking. They had broken up 2 times and he went back to his gf. I begged her to tell me what was going on. If she was leaving anyway what was the difference. She said she wasn't talking to him and she just wanted to be by herself. After a couple weeks of this I finally told her if she didn't talk to me I would send all the disgusting texts and emails I found to his girlfriend. I did. And within a few hours they were off to dinner and a hotel together, which ww (and I) paid for. They stayed at hotels for a couple nights until she got her apartment. OM was in the apartment 1 day then he went back to his girlfriend. I guess I got lucky.

The reason I wrote this is to discourage you from asking H about the situation. He is going to lie anyway. And then you will be more confused. Also, I think it very important to not let them back so easily. I did 2 years ago and I am in the same predicament. I believe this is something you have to prepare yourself for. For me if she said I want to come back I would have said hell yeah! But thats a big mistake.