Yes, that's cake eating. Was it a necessary convo? No. Did you husband choose to break up the family? Yes. Should he feel the consequences of his choices? I guess that's up to you...

You don't have to tell him you're keeping things strictly business, but you can. I would just keep it business and let the actions speak but everyone has their own style.

So irritating that he is crying to you, wishing for the better times again. He knows he can make that happen if he wants to. Crocodile tears if you ask me. Did you validate his feelings about the house reminding him of pain? Bc I get that. Did you validate when he said he has no feelings for you? B/c arguing or getting offended isn't going to help your cause.

I'd not ask him to fix things for you. Just my opinion. I'd have a brother, father, friend's bf/H fix it.

H 34
W 29
BD 3/12/18
Divorce Busted Spring 19

It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.