MY XH and I could not agree either on visitation, mpney, the business ect…
I was concerned he and OW were using drugs and this would be harmful for my 2 kids especially b/c my son was young and had life threatening allergies one wrong food- and … I fought..and never gave up
My XH got worse over time--gave up and eventually left..a vanisher..to our benefit My kids never met OW I got to raise them alone..got our business I was extremely lucky and had a good L No One really wins in this but we have to protect our kids
and if you can protect your 2...for now maybe the 3rd will come back when W gets worse and they do-
Just hang in there Listen to the L sometimes they know what we can have and not Fight fair for what you believe and just trust that you will get through it
Your W may get worse as time continues..if they are using /drinking the addiction escalates with the crises because they cant deal with pain we are the projection of their issues(not true) because their issues come from their unresolved childhood pain
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow
