Journaling,

Wassup y'all, been almost two weeks, so figured its time for an update. Sorry been very busy. W and I have been doing amazing, much progress has been made. We are intimate again she is initating ILY again, and we have been inseparable. The kiddos s6 and d3 are loving school, and W mom is back from the hospital and has been doing well. I am very thankful for having found this site it helped guide me with vets and newbies advice alike to a new direction in my marriage. My WAW was ready to call it quits but with the help of this site and it's members I was able to apply time tested techniques in which saved my marriage. Tonight we went out to a nice restaurant and had a great meal, and then walked on the beach together and watched the sunset. My W asked me if we could Renew our vows and I said couldn't be happier to do that. She's wearing her WR again as of a few weeks ago and I have really noticed her change toward a happier mood. For the last few years before BD she had gotten very closed off emotionally. I am maintaining my GAL and 180s and am still reading DB and DR. I have also gotten on meds for my bi polar and my mood has stabilized. The kids are even happier to be around me as I am able to maintain my composure now as I have never been able to before. I just want to leave this update with the closing thought to everyone that it is never to late, and working on yourself greatly increases your WW or WAW to notice these changes and reconsider their decision. Even though my BD was only on 8/8, our relationship has bloomed a new flower tender and full of life. Do these changes for you, regardless of the outcome, but know that it greatly impacts your W perception of you whether they say so or not. Much love y'all, keep your heads up. Will update in a week or so again. Peace!

Last edited by Seekn; 09/23/18 07:53 AM.