My WAS - looking help and thanks in advance PART 4

[joejoe1]

Ovr,

IMHO, I think the time for taking approaches is over. You have to let go and move forward and it has to be real. Using an approach will have you looking back for results. You have gave her ample amount of chances. Now it's on your WW to show you (with action, not lip service/words) and put in the work and prove to you ( with action) that she wants to be with you and only you. She will have to lose you to figure that out. Not lose you for a day, for a week, but she must feel in her heart she is losing you forever. But, she knows she still has you as a plan B. Stop being her plan B and move forward with your life, start planning your future without her in it. I know it will be hard (I have been there, cried to my eyes were all dried out), but if you want the best chance of getting your WW out of her ambivalence, you have to let go and move forward, you have to be willing to lose her to gain her back. You have to be willing to love yourself more than you love her.

There can't be love if there isn't any respect. Respect births love, not the other way around. She cant love you until she respects you, and she can't respect you, until you respect yourself.

No more being plan B, no more allowing the disrespect.

Onward and forward. Ovr, you got this. She will be a fool to lose you!