The reason I asked why do you think you cosigned on the lease, was to see if you recognize the expectations behind the things you are doing.
Read your last paragraph in your last post and ask yourself if your actions are motivated by expectations. If they are, that keeps you on the emotional rollercoaster. Unmet expectations cause disappointment.
DB'ing isnt a trick to get a spouse back. It is a life style of genuine transformation. When you arrive, you won't be wondering about her or how long it will take. No matter the outcome of your sitch, you will always have YOU. Keep GAL, working on detachment and self-improvement.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
