Yeah. She has been very clear what she wants with a D. Close co-parent relationship. Even discussed living on the same street or neighborhood. Hanging out at school and sports events etc. I was very clear that I would only communicate with her in a business like manner and only in regards to our S.
I'm not sure I'm a plan B. That would require her to even have a plan in the first place. She may have a plan, but it appears she has no clue as to any plan. She has spoken freely what the obstacles are in R and in D for her.
I almost wish she'd get caught talking to OM again so I have the excuse I need to start the D process. Living like things are now is terrible. W has hour to hour mood swings. I'm just going about my life as normal trying to be a lighthouse and build my own foundation. I'm hanging in there for my S and myself. S needs a solid foundation.
In terms of not believing what she says, I don't think she is lying. I just don't think she has even the first idea of what she wants or how she feels. It also seems as if she has cut contact with OM for 3 weeks or more. She leaves her phone lying around unattended all the time now. If she is communication with him, it's another way other than her phone. She also never has her computer out anymore. So, worst case scenario is that she told him to back off a while and I'll just quit trying at some point.
