H said he was going to look at housing, maybe moving out in Oct. That was a few days ago and hasn't been mentioned since. Meanwhile we are still living quite well together in a friendly manner. Got gifts and a nice dinner for my b-day yesterday. I am continuing to be active in my pursuit to GAL. My detachment is not going so well, though. I need to get back on track, for sure. He has said on a few occasions that he wouldn't blame me if I wanted to date. Maybe if I do he will feel less guilty? Maybe he's projecting what he wants on me? Who knows. I let him know that I am a married woman and I don't plan to do that while I'm married. This is all a bit exhausting.
