One

I have no advice for you

Just encouragement and solidarity

You have obviously thought through things thoroughly

I have a story to share

A friend had his w leave him and his children five years ago

She moved in with OM

She has refused to divorce him

Court not helpful

But like you he was able to move on

He is a great single dad

He works and coaches and dates too

I know you have got this

Despite all the shenanigans


Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving