My threads are long and probably pretty boring. There's no need for you to read them, but to summarize, I have/had a hard time letting go, too. Our D has dragged on a long time, and I've found those periods where I have less contact with her are the times I gain the most emotional distance. You are seeing her every day, so it's going to be hard for you, too. Eventually, you will get to a point where you are just tired of being in limbo, and are ready to move on. You are doing most things right, and it will just take time.
M:23 T:26 Me:53, Wife: 60 S:18 D:16 filed 7/16 W moved out 4/28/17