Officially, I guess we are. She said something last week when she was trying to talk me into going to her parents house: that she thought I would go b/c we are "back together now". I said "we are"? It doesn't feel like it we are. I mean she's slept next to me for over 3 weeks straight now. So that's a big 180 for her. But we don't talk a whole lot, or hug and kiss. She does text me throughout the day.
I am worried about where she's at, who she's with, and I don't think she'll be coming home tonight. But I think I need to redefine that to her as what a healthy R looks like: - no excessive boozing - no staying out all night - we know who each other is with, where each other is. - no more negative attitudes - etc, etc, etc
I'm going to look at my phone app in the morning to see where she went. And we'll see if she lies about it.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
