WW- Equalzr's saga pt 2. WW's & MLC'er advice plz

[equalzr]

I was going to vent about W on here and realized she doesnt deserve it. Im bummed out after she started a R talk because she sees me GAL. It was just the usual list of wrongs i committed etc. I did my best to validate but probably only earned a B at it. My progress took a hit, it was a hurtful conversation even though i played it cool.

When do you quit validating? Is that something you continie to do regardless or is it when you no longer desire a R whatsoever?

I have a fun weekend planned regardless. Went to a football game with S tonight. Tomorrow i have to run errands with son, and then i'll be going out for the night. W commented that we never went out and now im going out all the time. I must be doing a little more for myself than im giving myself credit for.