Trust me she is not back, I won't let her back. She is still on a rollercoaster ride and until I know she wants back with full commitment/remorse will keep up doing me. I have not been happier about myself like this in years and have actually been surprised at my reactions to her recent affection. I used to jump in with both feet thinking quick grab her but soon realized after a few days she would run back to OM. She was regaining control and wanted to know she had a back up plan.
I too made that aggressive push in the beginning, phone, snooping, arguments, demands and although she was still living in the house she I had never experienced a lifestyle like she was living, I thought my head was going to explode. Out every night, gone on weekends etc, she is equal owner on house so I legally couldn't kick her out nor would I leave my kids. We have been in in house separation for the last 5 weeks and I think it would have been easier if she had left.
H-50 W-48 T-19 M -18 S23, S14 BD - 5/9/2018 OM discovered 5/10/2018
In house sep - 8/18/2018 Rope drop 2/15/2019 R'ing since 3/15/2019
