I like Andrew's way to express himself.. he really knows how to explain his views..
OneArt, you know your ex more then any of us. Mine pushed images of being the exemple of the perfect father on the D. Fought for visitations and numbers. Knowing my ex, i knew his actions would not obey his OWN rules.. was i going to fight him on this? Nope.. waste of time and money. It felt like we went to court for nothing but we did not. I got custody and financial protection for my children. The 2 concerns i had for our future. He is difficult to deal with but he is in the shadow of my current life. You can move this along without him.. set your goals..