Patience. Patience. Patience. I say that because I know that I also struggle with it. You are at the outset of this journey, and no one can tell you how long it will last, but surely longer than you are thinking right now. I have now gone months without a real conversation with my W. At first, it was hard to survive even a few days without contact, but eventually I reached a place where I was no longer expecting to hear from her. Then I reached a place of not wanting to hear from her because it upset me when i was starting to feel okay. Now, when I receive a short email from her, i just shrug it off.
The question isn't whether or not he is creating his own life, it is why aren't YOU creating your own life? That's what GAL is all about. Turn your mental focus and energy inward on creating the life you want for yourself.
W 34 Me 42 Married 7 years together 8 0 kids 1 beloved dog BD 4/6/2018 I moved out 4/7/2018 I moved back in alone 8/05/2018 I file 3/06/2019 D official 5/7/2019
