You do sound grounded and confident and you seem like you know how to handle her
She may be too young for MLC but Im not sure if QLC is the same but if she goes through it now, maybe she wont repeat in her 40s --But it seems she has repeated this kind of behavior too often already-
They say MLC may be unresolved childhood issues. She will probably need to get to some a sort of help at some point to recover
At this point she seems to be more attracted to exploring other R which is a common MLC theme and having fun The MLCer cant get better while searching for Affair partners- it takes a looong time for many to recover if ever
She seems unwilling to work on herself or the R but seems connected to you by her texts many MLC will not keep an emotional connection with LBS for any great length of time-some will-
You have kids to take care of- and many of us here will put the focus on raising the kids as we watch the MLCer to see which direction they go
Many Mlcers will go out to sea and we have to create new lives while being the main parent and provider
You are young--you may have many options - Therapy is helpful for us-reading- Hang in-
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