DB / Detach- Will we ever piece it together

[Did]

W facetimes this morning, didnt answer called back an hour later. After D4 lost interest we talked a little. Shes feeling sick, time of month, cramps needs to workout cuz it helps her feel better. I wanted to help of course NGS, but mentioned having boundaries since were separated. She says she understands and I didnt need to come down but thinks we should help each other just to have a coparent relationship and that she always tries to be flexible. D4 wanted attention so we said we'd talk next week.

Need to discuss change in support.
D4 schedule consistency, potentially getting babysitter.

Id like to discuss if she wants to spend time together but Im not going to ask any of those questions. If she wants to shell say so, right?

The unfortunate fact is I still love her. And Im not as detached as Id like to be. Going to try to talk to her less, see her less until she chooses to talk. Not going to push it.