Navigating through and concentrating on myself #6

[Dtrmned]

Met with an A yesterday. Pretty much what I thought it would be.
If W and I can agree it will be easier. If we don't, it will get ugly.
Haven't told W I met with an A. It has definitely been an interesting week. W and I have had some decent conversations of which I have db'd the heck out of and I feel more detached than ever. In fact, W did something yesterday that was totally meant to dig at me and try to get me to blow up. I did comment that she knew exactly what she was doing, but didn't take the bait. Let it go and even validated (a little later after I walked away) her position and why she did it. She knows what she did and it is up to her to take care of it. This action of hers will come back to bite her a little today. I am doing absolutely nothing but going on with my normal day, but I am able to see ahead and what will happen. It is just one of those minor 2x4's that she needs to give her a dose of life without me. I will not revel, but I will not rescue either.

Looking forward to the weekend. Sports games with the kids and a bday party for my S with his friends. D has a bunch of social stuff going on as well so the taxi is warmed up and waiting. With all that, I don't know other than my hikes if there will be much time for any individual GAL's for me, but it should be a fun weekend!

Giving my W her space. Letting her do her thing, not being there for her every minute, and letting her make her own (and be responsible for ) her own actions.

It's Friday. As always, I am thankful that my family is still in the same house. Also thankful that for some reason my W and I are communicating and speaking more. No mind reading, No extra hope, just observing.