Notice, kech, what neffer said: "My W was ready to go on with her life...I chose my family." Do not think that part B had everything to do with part A!! You have to be ready, REALLY READY NOT FAKE READY, in order to for him to choose. If you keep hanging on he will keep one foot in and one foot out. kech, you may not want to hear this, but the day may come where YOU choose to file for D. It might need to come to that.

When my W found out I talked to a lawyer, she wasn't dumb. She knew the lawyer would push me to be the one to file. Why? because filing has advantages. She knew that if I took the step to talk to a lawyer the next logical conclusion was for me to file for D. AND, it was matching up to my actions (I was showing her I was ready to move on). But doing that in a fake way the WAS will detect it every time. So you have to commit to it, not bluff.

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018