Them wanting us to move really shows how far gone they are. I'm sorry you're dealing with this, the control factor is insane. Who in their right mind would follow their cheating spouse to another town to fulfill their MLC fantasy? Lol, and yet they think we should or would. I got luckier in that my ex was in such a hurry to run off w/om that she pushed for it quickly.
To me him not wanting to see the kids but trying to contact them = him not wanting to face the consequences of his actions. Thankfully my kids are too young to understand but yours know exactly what he's done.
