I do not really text her or call her anymore. She sends me pictures/snaps of our kids when they are with her. Sometimes sends things she thinks are funny. Most people I talk to, say to move on. Cut ties and go no contact except for with children. I am really unsure of what is best. I do not however pressure her into any talks she does not initiate, even those I have been trying to keep pretty light and easy going.
I really am not sure whats going with OM/men, I think it may be plural. I know she's been dating and had one of them over to her place. I know that they have talked about sexual things they have done with each other in the past. I know that she was sexting with another married man who lives in another state, that she had a previous EA possibly PA with about 4 years ago. I did ask a couple weeks ago if she was dating/seeing/talking/sleeping with other men and she denied everything but talking to them. She is not aware, or is in denial, of the information I have regarding all of that.
M: 29 W: 28 D: 8 S:1 M: 10 T: 11 BD1: 8//15 (physically separate) Back together: 4/16 BD2: 3/18, physically separate 6/18) Here we are again.
