I know you want answers. I know what it's like to want someone to tell you what the conversations mean. Don't trust what you hear. All I take from this is that she doesn't want you to hate her. Typical WAW stuff.
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m: yeah, I get that. I guess then i don't really want anything from you. I want you to go through whatever you are going through and come out the other side a better person. I know you've been struggling with yourself for years. Just as I have been struggling with myself.
You saw a positive response from this. That's because you relieved the pressure. Continue to remove any pressure.
You're still trying to skip steps. These aren't optional. If they were, we would all skip steps. Go back and read Sandi's rules. Listen and validate. Show her that you plan to move forward with or without her.
This will not change until you do these things.
Last edited by RR17; 09/20/1806:39 PM.
M 53 W 54, M since 98 D15, D19 8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM until 10/14 7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR 12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.
