Curious as to others thoughts. I am much happier than I was 2 months ago when I started GAL and fully detaching a month ago. I have been getting out reconnecting with friends, getting a lot of backlogged repairs around the house done, spending more time with family that I hadn't in the past, reading, talking to some ladies on a friendly basis, etc. I really could care less which way my M goes at this point but my wife's issues outside of her A don't seem to be addressed by her and I feel like our house is stuck in a painful limbo.
She won't agree to D, says R conversations would be to heavy and hasn't been able to talk while drinking, then recently said she is so confused and emotional that I shouldn't try to talk to her while she is drinking. I was like, that doesn't leave much other time to talk about anything even though I do not instigate any R talks it is her.
If you followed my thread my WW had been abusing alcohol and drugs back in Jun/July/early Aug until she claimed she was going sober and no more drugs. Although she is slipping back into those patterns and I see her drinking more, hitting a THC vape, and I'm sure some others, she is just better about keeping it away from the house. Honestly I don't know how she is functioning in her job because she has a lot of responsibility and I know she is only one hiccup from losing it.
Just don't know what to do from here. Could get evidence for forced D, could make things difficult so that she maybe leaves. Just dont know...I'm being patient but I just don't see this environment being healthy especially for my S14 for too much longer.
H-50 W-48 T-19 M -18 S23, S14 BD - 5/9/2018 OM discovered 5/10/2018
In house sep - 8/18/2018 Rope drop 2/15/2019 R'ing since 3/15/2019
