Hey Steve, what are your thoughts on my sitch. I think I have been successfully GAL, detaching etc but my WW has not changed a thing although she has noticed and has told me so. My impatience is from the fact I am supporting the entire household as she runs around as she pleases. Won't D won't R just leaning on her issues and how she is broken, her financial sitch is getting worse. I keep thinking I need to engage to get her out or get her moving in a different direction because it is affecting my S14. I think she is content with this limbo where she pays nothing and continues to live independently.

I feel like that is the only reason I come back to pushing an issue to get some sort of resolution. Can one live in this limbo, purgatory for a long term?

H-50
W-48
T-19
M -18
S23, S14
BD - 5/9/2018
OM discovered 5/10/2018

In house sep - 8/18/2018
Rope drop 2/15/2019
R'ing since 3/15/2019