I just read your post about your sitch. You sound very similar to my H. Both OW he has seen are single mothers, and I think he feels like he needs to take care of them, and he likes that feeling. Yet, I am his wife at home with a 6 month old baby that he is now making a single mother.. I know he struggles a LOT feeling like he needs to protect us, but he is having other relationships trying to be the man in someone elses life as well.
I found it interesting you said your W didnt make you work hard to get back in the M. I am guilty of that, and I wonder if my H is under the impression I would still let him back easily. hmm. Makes me think.
Do you feel there is anything your W could have done that would have assisted in you returning to her, or did it all need to play out? Over all, how long were you wayward before ultimately deciding to really make it work at home?
It is extremely beneficial to have a man on the other side of this in here, I really appreciate you taking the time to talk to me.
