Thanks for your comment, its very interesting to hear from someone on the other side of it. I have never tried meditation. In your experiences as WW, did you go back to your spouse after time and space was given? I will have to read about your sitch.
Steve, great analogy about the cat. So true. I think it is SO hard for me to stay consistent in it all. .Tuesday I was overly nice and happy around him, yesterday I pulled back and said barely anything, and its like I expect an immediate response from that because everytime I have pulled back previously, it would get an action of some sort out of him. And considering I havent heard from him today it just makes me feel like oh it isnt working. But obviously im just not giving it the time it needs. And its SO hard to be around him and pull away like I did yesterday. Its very hard to not sit and discuss our days when I know we both want to. Or at least I think we do.
I know my smallest consistent action will be noticed, its just a matter of staying consistent and its tough.
LITB,
if my fear truly is slowing down this process, then I PRAY i can let it go soon because I dont know how long I can go through this!
