There is no advice to give. You keep looking for a magic bullet to move on. There is none. it simply takes time. The only way to the other side is through it.
You aren't getting your chance to say your piece because of the TRO. So, nothing you can do. And from experience. It doesn't make you feel any better. And you aren't going to get the response you hope for.
What else is there to do other than focus on your self and your son? There is GAL, IC, Divorce groups, advancing your career, just love being a dad and all that has to offer, make new friends.
There is no advice. You can't do anything different other than live you life. You are even dating someone when you admittedly aren't healed.
You can simply go on with your life minus your wife. That's all you can do. That's all all of us have done.
