The apartment is real. There is another officer who also lives in the building for free. I have seen photos and he FaceTimes when he has our children there. I’m not in denial about an affair but haven’t had any proof. He seems depressed and I have proof he’s been working 80 hours a week. All he does is work and does overtime or has the kids in his free time. I’ve thought he could have had a one night stand or something when I was pregnant and couldn’t deal with the guilt maybe??