My sitch is starting to appear bleak on opportunity for R....but I remain patient, calm, and consistent.
Just told another poster this morning: "It always gets worse before it gets better."
The problem isn't how your WAS is interacting with you, the problem is the expectations you attach to it. "She is being nice, it means we are going to R!" "She is being mean it means we are going to D!"
Neither means what the above statements says it does. But as LBSs we attach those meanings to those actions.
Detachment says that you will remain consistent, no matter what the WAS says or does.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
