Great story. I have to just continue letting him living his life and have hope that he will come back, but make my life one I love regardless. I have definitely let him go physically, out of the house, ask no questions, I assume he is seeing OW although he denied it and i havent looked into it since. I am giving him true time and space in hopes that it brings him back to me. My fears in the meantime just get the best of me. The fears that he will really fall for her and start a life with her.
Its terrifying. But I know all I can do is let go. Hopefully emotionally i will start to let go more and more. Thanks Steve