Thank you for the honesty Neffer, i appreciate and need it.

Can you explain to me what you mean by im buying what shes selling? Does that mean im still attached and letting it affect me or...?

Your correct, shes been WW for a loooong time, and probably longer than i actually know about. I damn sure need to get my respect back. Im doing that by taking care of business and holding my own even though my financial situation is less than stellar from spending years as a stay @ home dad. As far as getting respect back from W in what our R is now, i do struggle with that at times.

Im very focused on db'ing again lately but its not for W anymore its for me. Ill keep it up, and im currently rereading and digesting DR book again. I have much to learn!


Together:20 years
M:3 years
Me:40
WW:40
S15
A suspected:5/17
AC:5/18
BD:8/18
WW in full blown R w/ OM
Still under same roof