I dont really know what she is, all I know is that midlife for dummies describes what has happened/is still happening perfectly, most time down to the same verbiage
So Ive decided to move from newcomers to here, as I feel I was a newcomer when she first started this a couple years ago. There was a brief pause with the MLC as she came back for a bit, we had a kid, but then she started the same things again. I have not really looking into this part of the forum yet. As I was so focused on other things last time.
Maybe shes just chronically unhappy with me and we really should call it quits. Its sad but I can see a future where we get back together and she just does this again.
OM/en came into the picture during her ultimatum to me ''this is your last chance'' and I think when they met, it was the catalyst or opening she needed to push for separation. She denies his/their (multiple) existence to this very day. I have not confronted her on what I know. Still think about doing it daily.
So here I am. Going to be reading a lot the next few weeks I am sure. Over analyzing everything as I do.
I look forward to talking to and reading about everything here.
Last edited by job; 09/20/1812:05 PM. Reason: Removed reference and link to another site name
M: 29 W: 28 D: 8 S:1 M: 10 T: 11 BD1: 8//15 (physically separate) Back together: 4/16 BD2: 3/18, physically separate 6/18) Here we are again.
