I get very nervous when I pull back because it feel SO unnatural not to speak or start a convo when we’re around one another. And I feel like the more and more we lose our connection, the more he will connect with OW. The more we pull away from one another, the more he will forget who I am and why he fell in love with me.
I promise this is not the case. I worried about that too. You are taking care of your needs, creating space and removing yourself from his plan B. This is best for you, and that is the priority. He also needs to relearn how to treat you and that you value yourself more than just to wait around for him. It's okay if he starts to wonder if you are moving on. It's a good thing if you really want this dirtbag, I mean guy, back. Please trust me in this one! Don't even give OW head space, she is worth so much less than you can even imagine!
Kudos. Now enjoy your evening!
Blu
“Forgiveness liberates the soul. It removes fear. That is why it is such a powerful weapon.” – Nelson Mandela
