Now that he is moving in or has, it is going to get real very quickly. She has teens who live at home at least half time. The house is small and a dump with limited bathroom facilities (courtesy of the tax records). He is big time OCD and has to have everything just so. She has a big hairy dog. He hates pets. I could go on and on.
Lol. Oh he!! no, that's NOT going to last.
Sorry he's poking at you. My ex and I were very civilized during our divorce, and mine was relatively smooth, but I STILL get a knot in my stomach when I see an email in my inbox from him (thankfully that almost never happens now). The smooth sweet language always couched some kind of gotcha or bad news from him.
I do have to approach him sometime in the next few months to ask about his retirement plans (he has an option to take an early retirement in a year, which means then I would get my share of that early retirement). I hate to ask though as I almost think he would postpone his retirement out of spite if he thought I needed the money.
Don't let him get to you. Just keep doing what's best for you and the kids.
