OK, DBers. I get to ask for some advice. Yay.

W texted me to say that she is going to take our Ds to the local high school homecoming parade tomorrow and invited me along. I replied with "Thanks. I'll think about it."

I had plans to play poker with some friends tomorrow, but they fell through. Earlier today I actually looked up the parade to see when it was so that I could take the girls myself, and I was bummed to see that it was on W's day.

So, do I go? I feel like this is completely about spending time with my Ds on my W's day, doing an activity Ds love, and giving them some family time ... but I may very well be fooling myself. I've done that before. Keep in mind, we just officially separated Friday. I'm thinking I go to spend time with the Ds and have no expectations, but it's so early on in the separation, what do I do????

Thanks.


Me: 40 W:39
T: 19 M: 12
D4, D7
EA/BD: August 2017
EA ended: Oct 2017
MC: Oct 2017 - March 2018
W signed lease: July 10, 2018
W moved out: Sept. 14, 2018