No luck getting a hold of her at work, went straight to VM. My sister and I r out to town visiting my elderly parents so I may check myself when we get back tomorrow. If I see her I can innocently ask her how her trip to Brazil was and comment on what a short trip it was...if I see her.

I’m on chapter 4 of DR book. I am going to try to sign my H and I up for a cooking class maybe with some friends joining us.

Just wanted to say, thank you all for you’re input, I would rather now the truth about possible A, instead of living a lie. As painful as that would be. I have a close friend who works with my H, part of me wants to confide in her and maybe to have her spy on H, but maybe that is a bit juvenile.