I think you're right - I had told her (truthfully) that I didn't know if I was going out of town for the weekend or not.
And didn't answer the question about "if I wanted to get a bottle of wine if I was still in town".

I there will be other plans regardless...

Me, H-39, W-33
T11, M3
No children
Bomb 10/17 - "Not sure what she wants"
Bomb 2 12/17 - forced convo it did not go well.
W moved out 3/18
OM Confirmed 4/1
D Final 9/27/18